Third Places in San Diego

Sociologist Ray Oldenburg coined the term “third places” to describe informal, neutral locations outside of home (first place) and work/school (second place). These locations are used for social interactions, gatherings, and community building. Examples include parks, beaches, cafes, bars, gyms, libraries, and even some restaurants.

Third places are meant to facilitate social interaction with people outside our normal circle of family and coworkers. No one is forced to be there and cost should not prevent or prohibit people from attending. It is a place where we can interact with members of our community, both friends and strangers, and it acts as a meeting ground to build relationships with people of our community.>

For Americans, it can seem difficult to identify and utilize third places in our local communities. With a heavy reliance on cars for transportation and an increase in screen time and social media, it is not as easy to find yourself in a third place in today’s America compared to European cities 100 years ago. However, it’s still possible and imperative to build a sense of community and happiness!

Here are some of my favorite third places in San Diego:

Peace, Love, & Yoga – My family has been taking yoga classes here for well over 15 years and I love it here! My mother Donna is known by most teachers and I feel at home here, even though I don’t attend classes regularly. They have a very relaxed vibe and everyone, both teachers and students, is extremely friendly and welcoming. It’s a great workout but the people here make it an amazing third place. Even Jim goes once in a while!

Communal Coffee – This coffee shop is a recent find for me and has my favorite coffee ever – a sweet mint cold brew. While their drinks and food are delicious, it also has a great community feel to it. Last time I was there, I met a friend for breakfast and she brought her dog – we ended up chatting with another dog owner as the puppies interacted! With their open layout and bustling business, Communal is another local spot to create a sense of community.

Kate Sessions Memorial Park – Located just north of Pacific Beach, it provides 180 degree views of downtown, Mission Bay, Point Loma, and the ocean. Many people I know spend time here and there always seems to be people hanging out and enjoying the 79-acre park!

Liberty Station – A former naval training center turned cultural hub! It features a variety of shops, restaurants, art galleries, and open spaces where people can gather. It’s a great spot to meet people, whether for food, culture, or just to relax.

All Beaches – Once the weather gets warmer, there’s no better place to be than at the beach! Whether you’re laying on the sand, catching some waves, or walking along the coast, our San Diego beaches are a great way to get outside, spend time with loved ones, meet new people, and enjoy the place we call home!